Well, today is marking my count down to the big surgery date!! Which is November 20th of this year, two weeks until this operation is on its way.
I am starting to feel excited and nervous at the same time, with every surgery there is a risk of complications. I am reminded of this but have the most amazing faith in my surgeon Dr. Lane. Who is a hardass, and I am excited to prove to her I have what it takes! Right now Sparrow Weight Management has me on a all “Product” diet which is shakes, puddings, soups, and bars this is to help me loose weight before surgery. Any weight that I take off before the big day is awesome, because it helps shrink my liver so Dr. Lane can move it around and also that my belly will be smaller and she can have more room. So far with this diet I have been craving salt more than anything, I already have gotten rid of salt in my apartment and used seasonings as a substitute. If you were on this diet you would crave about anything right now! Well I caved and had a pickle that was the only thing in my fridge and some popcorn. It did feel like the foods of the gods but I felt like shit after because I knew I had to drink twice water to flush it out.
I am making huge strides in getting rid of bad habits, and I am loving it! I have more energy to do things, and overall feel better. I used to eat when I felt stressed, and sad. No I wasn’t that person who cried and had a bucket of ice cream that had salty tears in it as I shove in my pot hole. But to comfort me after crying was to turn on a tv and sit down with junk food and eat it, yes I reflected on what happened that day but got over it right then. In turn of events that stress never went away and the next day it hit me in the face like a hard book. So that whole stress eating is taken care of now, I can successfully say now when I feel stressed I make a craft, go for a walk, or grab my awesome expensive camera and take pictures of random stuff.
I have had temptations all over the place since I started this diet, one temptation is to drink with friends. When I started this I had a Halloween party to attend at my best friends place. I went and bought five liter bottles of water so I can drink that instead of drinking alcohol. I started out pretty good, until they started to peer pressure me in to drinking and taking a shot. I got pissy because I was sick of explaining to them that I cannot drink at all! So I left early from the party. Also on top of that I wasn’t feeling all that good, my head was pounding and I was extremely tired. I am sorry best friend if you are reading this! You know I love you! Another temptation with alcohol was when I went out a weekend ago to yet another Halloween party but this time it was at a bar. Little background info on this bar, my best friend and I go here to dance and not get judged. I love going there because it is near our hometown, and I don’t have to peel off creeps from my behind when I dance. So we went, and they got the message that KAYLEE IS NOT DRINKING and I didn’t (WOHOO) But I had people buy me drinks which I gave away to other drunks, made sure they knew that they were “purdy” before handing them to it. I did dance circles around my best friend and danced on my OWN which felt amazing. My confidence has risen, world watch the hell out!
I love to eat chinese food. Who doesn’t its so addicting and good. Well last Sunday, I walked all over gods green earth (awesome exercise too) taking pictures of my uncle and aunts family. It was a great time, and I felt like I was hounded on going to dinner. So I went, I broke down and called my mom saying were I was going. I looked in my bag, and found a shake that I can drink. So I went to dinner smelling all the awesome Chinese food, but never caved! I drank my shake and did a little info session on my family letting them know what I am having, and they ultimately supported me through it. It felt good to say NO to myself on temptation and be successful with it.
So here is my downfall, I hate exercise. It feels like a chore, and I hate doing chores. I need to find a routine that fits me personally so that I can do it without thinking. So far I came up with mall walking, and making sure the money and card is put away when I do. I haven’t went yet, so I am thinking because the weather is super crappy I will do that. I also have a indoor pool at my apartment complex (oh yes be jealous) which I don’t utilize at all. That I need to do fast! So, I am thinking one day walk, then one day pool. So four out of the seven days I am getting exercise.
Now I have an amazing support team to help me through this journey. I am not going to write today about them because this post would be a mile long. I am going to blog about them soon, and have my box of tissues next to me as well. I will need it.
Well that’s all folks!
I hope you enjoyed my rambling
Love
Kaylee